Ego Games Children Play:

Whether or not your child has the energy of an Indigo, Crystal, or Rainbow Child, the fact of the matter is the New Children are all energetically sensitive.  Now that the New Children are back in school, how are they adjusting?  Because there are such a large number of energetically sensitive children, it is important to check in with them to find out how they are feeling about themselves. 

Our inner world reflects our outer world.  If your child is experiencing fear, frustration, self doubt, etc., probe a little bit to find out how, why, or where their troublesome feelings are coming from.  Teach the children to look inside their hearts to get in touch with their own intuition.  Our egos start to surface in the early elementary years, and if we do not learn early on what is ego (i.e. fear) versus divine truth, the seeds of doubt and fear get planted, which then grow in many ways injuring our spirit.  The ego loves to contradict our inner truth radar (intuition) in order to create doubt in areas of our life that we are most vulnerable.

Help yourself and your children by recognizing ego games.  Ego games the children play are put-down games (“I am better than you”), excluding games, bragging, the blame game (“He did it,” “I didn’t do it,” “It’s not my fault,” etc.,) just to name a few.  The ego wants to keep us in separation from one another…so the ego games begin in the early school years.  A lot of us have been taught that these games children play are normal…that is what children do; right?  Wrong! 

As conscious spiritual beings, we can make positive changes to help the highly sensitive New Children adjust to this world through our awareness, and we can teach children from the start what is ego versus love.  It is human nature to want to be accepted, loved, and understood.  Through recognizing how the ego creates doubt, fear, and separation, via ego games, we can teach our children to recognize this ego behavior. 

For example, let’s say a boy named “Bobby” is bragging to all the kids at school about how he is going to ace the spelling test, and he has the “hard list.”   On the inside Bobby is feeling insecure, and his ego is pumping up his confidence by trying to convince everyone how smart he is by bragging.  On the inside Bobby is not feeling very good about himself, and by bragging, he falsely makes himself feel better.  In this case, bragging is the ego’s disguise for lack of self-confidence.  Bobby’s bragging is covering up the real issue of his having doubts about his personal power.  Perhaps he has been invalidated by an adult or older brother?  Do older siblings tell him how stupid he is all the time?  Is he overcompensating to make himself feel better?  You get the idea…

Awareness is the first step of healing.  Now that you have recognized how the ego manipulates, what is next?  The next step is releasing the hurt or pain.  There are many techniques for releasing energy.  A simple way for children to release energy is to have them visualize all their feelings going into a balloon.  They can watch the balloon float away into the stars, or they can ask their angels to take the balloon to the light. 

After releasing the hurt feelings, comes forgiveness of self and others.  The planet Earth is a spiritual classroom for growth.  The goal is to learn from our experiences.  That is why forgiveness is important.  Without forgiving ourselves and others, we cannot be whole.  Children have open hearts, and if we teach them at young ages to forgive themselves and others, it will be easier for them to honor their inner light; in the long-run, they will be better for it; and the world will be a better place.

UNDERSTANDING SENSITIVE & INTUITIVE CHILDREN WORKSHOP

•     Intuition:  How to listen to your own intuition and teaching your child how to 
       listen to their intuition.
•     Grounding:  How to determine when your child is not grounded, why grounding
       is important, and behaviors that result from not being grounded
•     How to identify your child’s sensitivities and how they pick up on energies
•     Techniques for cleaning energy
•     The benefit of crystals:  Where and how to use them
•     Teach your child how to meet their spirit guide (and yours, too!)
•     Tools for protecting your energetic space for yourself and your children

                       Place: Her Spirit in Pioneer Square (5181 W Overland Road, Boise)
                       Date:  October 18, 2010     Time: 6:30pm (approximately 2 hours)
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Love, Light and Gratitude,

Tammy Franklin

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